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my boyfriend doesn't eat sugar, so every cake i make for him is a little experiment. this one is dates and cocoa and nothing else — the small one was the test run and the big one is the real thing, cooling on my mom's counter. do i risk a date caramel between the layers or keep it simple

sat on a plastic stool for twenty minutes while a teenager clipped tiny stars into my hair and honestly? best twelve dollars i've spent all summer. do i keep it in for the wedding this weekend or is that pushing it

found these in the men's section and now i can't stop thinking about it. i already own one felt hat and wear it maybe twice a year… but this one has the little leather band. talk me into it or out of it

ok i fully impulse bought this white bag with the little 3d gold + pearl flowers and now i'm SO in love but also stuck… what do i even wear this with?? feels too pretty for just jeans but idk. help a girl style it 🥺

found this drapey brown midi and i'm kind of obsessed but idk if it's too much… or not enough? for a first date. thinking dinner, nothing super fancy. is it a yes or should i keep looking 👀

my boyfriend surprised me with this floral violin for my bday and it's honestly the prettiest thing i own… tiny problem: i have ZERO clue how to play lol. do i actually learn or just let it live as the prettiest shelf decor ever 😭

picked up this reed diffuser and my whole apartment smells like a five-star hotel lobby now 🕯️✨ warm, a little spicy, expensive in the best way. has anyone tried atelier rebul?? drop your holy-grail home scent, i'm collecting

i keep circling back to these — chocolate brown suede, pointed toe, that perfect heel height 🤎 so versatile but also NOT cheap 😩 do i pull the trigger or walk away and pretend i never saw them?? swipe for the side profile

course after course with THIS view 🌃✨ the pumpkin soup, the little tasting plate, all of it felt unreal. i genuinely didn't know what half of it was but it was incredible. when's the last time someone spoiled you like this?? swipe for the tasting plate

we're about to drive 6 hours and my boyfriend surprised me with THIS little guy as a travel pillow 🥹🐹 it's so soft and stupidly cute and now i'm getting emotional in a moving car. what's the silliest little thing your person has ever gotten you??

been eyeing this cropped wool jacket with the little gold buttons — very quiet-luxury but make it structured. worth it or will i wear it twice and forget it exists?? swipe for the button detail

so i'm actually getting married 🥹💍 and i think this might be THE one — sparkly, off-shoulder, mermaid fit. swipe for the full length. is it too much or exactly enough?? i need my girls' honest eyes on this

he said we were 'just grabbing dinner' and then walked me into THIS 🥹 the chandeliers, the staircase, i genuinely felt like royalty for a night. what's the most unexpected place a date has ever taken you??

made turkish coffee for two but honestly there's always room for one more ☕✨ slow afternoons + good cups + better company is my whole personality. who's joining me?? and tell me exactly how you take yours 💫

went out for dinner and tried actual Turkish food for the first time and WOW 🤤 this is adana kebab — grilled spicy lamb, warm lavash bread, sumac onions and a charred pepper. did not know food could taste like this. what's a cuisine i HAVE to try next??

finally tried the sushi spot with the skyline view and it did NOT disappoint 🍣 the sashimi platter was unreal and that sunset?? straight up cinematic. treat-yourself dinner done right 🧡 tell me your go-to sushi order, i'm always hunting for new faves

was just walking home and found these two babies curled up together in a doorway 🥺 they let me pet them and now i physically cannot stop thinking about them. do i feed them?? whats the right way to help street kittens without scaring them off??

just knocked a full cup of boiling water onto my hand and it is STINGING so bad 😭 i ran it under cold water and put some cream on — what else do i do?? is it gonna blister?? someone who knows first aid please

went to water my plants and found THIS 🐣 a pigeon decided my flowerpot was the perfect nest and just... left an egg?? i have a tenant now apparently. do i leave it alone or?? never been a bird landlord before someone help lol

ok i've had this exact photo saved for like a month 😅 long layers + curtain bangs. swipe to see my hair right now — it's thick, kinda wavy and pretty long. would curtain bangs be a nightmare to style every morning or actually low effort?? someone with bangs pls be honest

grabbed this on my lunch break and it lowkey slapped — grilled chicken, cauliflower, kidney beans, pickled cabbage, all of it. trying to eat a little cleaner this month. is this an actual win or am i lying to myself lol

gave my little guy his first real bath today and he is NOT having it 😂 he's soaked — is this too wet or does he just air dry from here?? first-time budgie mom, someone tell me he's okay 🥲

packed up the whole beach bag and set up camp — tanning oil, an iced coffee, UNO, and absolutely zero plans 🌊☀️ this is my idea of a perfect day off. what's the ONE thing that has to be in your beach bag or it doesn't count as a real beach day??

genuinely can't pick a favorite anymore 😩 did all of these myself over the past few months — the sparkly stiletto set, the milky pink, and the soft ombré. which one should i recreate next?? swipe through 💅 (my poor natural nails are hiding somewhere under there lol)

actually cooked instead of ordering out and honestly?? kinda proud of myself 😌 chicken, rice, avocado, cucumber, tomato and those little mozzarella pearls. simple but it hits every single time. drop your go-to easy protein bowl combos, i need new ideas 🍚

been eyeing this one for MONTHS and it's finally on sale. to the girls who actually own it — does it last on you? is it too 'grown up' for everyday or can i get away with wearing it to work too? talk me into it (or out of it) 😅

was cleaning out the storage room and found my old HSM thermos… sharpay AND gabriella, graduation celebration edition. instantly felt 9 years old again. please tell me someone else had this exact one 💗

first time making tacos from scratch — beef, corn, cucumber, cherry tomato, little bit of everything. they FELL APART the second i picked them up but honestly tasted incredible. rate my attempt out of 10 lol

finally caved and got the auto litter box… my girl immediately claimed it as her new nap spot lol (it's not even running, she just likes the dome). worth the money or did i just buy a very expensive cat cave 😹

picked up my first peace lily and i am DETERMINED not to kill it. it's in a bright-ish corner rn. how often are we watering these? and do i need to worry about the leaves drooping or is that normal drama 😭 tips welcome

broccoli-based buns, chia seeds on top, grilled chicken and sauteed spinach inside. no bread, no guilt lol. it actually held together and tasted way better than it has any right to. would you try a veggie bun or is that a crime 😅

been practicing pouring for like two weeks straight and i FINALLY got a little tulip today… ok it's a slightly lopsided tulip but it's MY lopsided tulip. rate it honestly, i can take it 😌